People enter dating websites for different reasons. One of them is looking for a serious relationship. If you registered in such a portal, then you should take a constructive approach on the matter. This will help not to waste your time and, probably, nerves on useless contacts with people.
It’s the same kind of principle as in life: you have to both demonstrate yourself properly and get to know a person standing opposite to you. Let’s divide recommendations into 2 parts.
3 PIECES OF ADVICE FOR SHOWING YOURSELF PROPERLY
That’s simple but genius:
1. Don’t post too explicit photos. They are not bad, by the way. But the society is not ready for them so far. The situation gets worse especially on dating sites where people judge each other by photos. Just post a humble picture in your profile and a few others from work, theatre or a park. Don’t show everyone how you hang out at parties. You shouldn’t be interested in such a rest if you enter a dating site.
2. Speak about anything, but don’t flirt. If you talk to someone in person, an eye contact is very important. But coquetry doesn’t seem good while chatting. You also shouldn’t tell anyone about you search for a serious relationship as soon as possible. Yes, we live at a time, when romance doesn’t mean anything, but don’t kill it right away. You can frighten a man with your pressure. You will understand each other later after you get to talk a bit.
3. Be open-minded. It doesn’t apply to everything, but anyway. This will help you to get another person talking. Have you noticed that everybody wants to share his thoughts with an open-minded person? It also works another way round. But don’t tell everything about yourself right away. There are also things that you must never mention.
P.S. Don’t ever lie. It can be useful to leave something out, but if your house is built on lies, it’s a house of cards.
HOW TO FIND OUT THAT YOUR PARTNER WANTS A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP TOO?
It’s a bit more complicated. Sometimes even the most positive person can turn out to be a liar. But there are several indicators of a confirmed bachelor. You should pay attention to them:
– Age under 25 (even if a person thinks that he is ready, it’s a mistake);
– Stories about his success;
– Large number of photos from parties;
– A summary that is too good.
However calculating and wise we want to be, a relationship isn’t mathematics. That’s why there are exceptions in all the cases. Your partner can be not ideal by each criterion. Trust a six sense. If you understand that a man is your type of person, then you can take a chance.